I’m a coward, I live under a bridge and I’m a nasty fecker. I’m a YouTube troll

By Guest Post | January 6 2013 | 39 Comments

We’ve followed Leanne Woodfull’s journey as one of Ireland’s best and brightest YouTube vloggers for years and have been impressed BY her and distressed FOR her in equal measure as we watched the downright nastiness of some of her commenters.  It’s hard to understand the amount of anonymous hate and bullying that occurs as a result of putting yourself “out there”, particularly at a young and vulnerable age when you’re least equipped to deal with it – until you actually see the effect it has.  Read Leanne’s story and give her some Beaut.ie love – she deserves it.

I started my Youtube channel back in 2010, as an extension of my fashion and beauty blog THUNDER + THREADS; I wanted to showcase my favourite products, my outfits and thoughts in a more “visual” manner. I constantly watched gurus on the website, and thought I’d give it a shot as I saw very few Irish fashion/ beauty gurus posting videos at the time.

I was 16, quite naive and wasn’t prepared for the cruelty that lay beneath Youtube. It’s a website infested with trolls, bullies, racists – you name it!

I’ve been on countless social media websites over the years, and I’ve never encountered so many trolls as I have, and still do, on that website.

The majority of people who upload videos to Youtube, and have a sizable audience, will most likely receive abuse from an online troll at least once in their Youtube life. Whether it be a generic “ur ugly” comment, or one that hits a more personal note, I’m sure the majority of gurus have received one. If you have anything different about you, trolls will latch on to that – unfortunately. Trolls will latch on to anything really; they’re keyboard warriors. They get a kick out of putting people down, who they don’t know, behind a computer screen. It’s incredibly sad – you have to learn how to pity them.

My trolls over the years, have latched on to one thing in particular when it comes to me; I developed a facial deformation at the age of 13, a prominent underbite and complications surrounding both my top and bottom jaws. Due to that, bullying in school and outside of school in the “real world” and your average teenage self-hatred, I began to feel depressed, suicidal and was in a dark, dark place for a chunk of my teenage life.

I started my blog in late 2009 as an escapism; a distraction and something to focus on. On my blog I felt protected, creative and was growing more confident with each blog post. I started making Youtube videos in the Summer of 2010 – small reviews of products, light-hearted rant videos, outfit videos etc. Looking back, I half regret it. I regret putting myself “out there” through videos at such a young age, with such little confidence to start off with. I always say to friends and family, that I wish I had waited even another year or two to start making videos.

Nothing prepared me at all for what was to lay ahead over the years. I was slagged almost hourly about my jaw, which conjured up the nickname “Jaws” for me, that still lingers with my trolls today. I was told to kill myself on a daily basis, told how ugly I was etc etc. It was humiliating, embarrassing, depressing and completely terrifying.

I ended up deleting a heap of my first videos, taking various breaks from the channel and stepping away from it all regularly. My confidence plummeted to an all time low. I remember during one of these breaks, I was linked by a subscriber to a hate channel that was set up slagging me. The hate channel had downloaded some of my videos, taken the sound out from them and had dubbed them with grotesque captions slagging me, and saying horrific things about my little sisters and Grandmother. To say I was absolutely distraught would be an understatement.

I’m 19 now, and 2013 is my third year on Youtube. I’m proud of my videos, I enjoy making them and I’ve made quite a few friends through the website. The majority of experiences and benefits I’ve received through my whole “internet journey” has derived from my blog, however. Youtube has caused me a great deal of upset and trouble over the years. Maybe it was young age and lack of confidence that has affected my Youtube experience negatively for me. Still to this day, I get nervous jitters in my stomach when I see (1) New Comment – surely that’s not healthy? As much as I appreciate my subscribers and my fellow Youtube friends, I do wonder whether or not I could have just solely focused on my blog. I think regularly about is the whole Youtube thing, worth it in the end?

I sound ungrateful, I know, but it’s an experience that confuses me entirely. I’m currently on 39,000 subscribers; a lot for an Irish Youtuber, but still quite a small number in the grand scale of fashion/ beauty vloggers worldwide. I’ve lost a lot of my enthusiasm and confidence over the years making videos, becoming very guarded and paranoid about what I put up. I’m having an operation early this year to correct my jaw disfigurement, so I’m hoping that’ll help me regain the confidence I’ve lost. That’s why I haven’t deleted my channel, or have given up yet – I have hope. I have hope that maybe my Youtube experience will improve, that I learn how to brush trolls’ abuse aside completely. For now, I’ll continue to carry on and give it my all.

I still receive abuse daily on Youtube of course, but it’s in the minority. I have to keep reminding myself of that! I tend to delete and block the majority of users who send me abuse, but I must admit that I do put some in their place at times. It’s only human nature to stick up for yourself. My advice to anyone thinking of starting videos is; be prepared for the trolls. That website breeds them, you’ll no-doubt experience them at least once! I’m not trying to scare people off, I’m just trying to warn you. I wasn’t prepared for trolls, but I think if you have the confidence, sense and if you’re prepared, you’ll do just fine. It’s a great community otherwise, and it is fun reading people’s comments and reactions to your videos.

Remember the majority of people are nice, like anywhere, but there’s a huge minority of negative, insecure trolls that feed off of putting others down.

At the end of the day, if you’re proud of what you do – feck the haters! Be nice, it’s simple – karma’s a bitch!

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39 Replies to "I’m a coward, I live under a bridge and I’m a nasty fecker. I’m a YouTube troll"

  • Holly says:

    That was an extremely well written piece, Leanne. I can really empathise with you. I made videos for a period of time and, though I had no where near as many subscribers as you, I was abused daily, and some of the comments I received were really grotesque. Oh and the horrible commenters were mainly Irish, whereas people from other countries were very sweet. I was disgusted that my so-called friends were abusing me online!

  • boredmum says:

    Leanne i’m sure u have been told many times that people who put other people down are the ones that have low self esteem, judging from the pics above, u r very pretty and i’d say them TROLLs were just jealous.. thick ignorant fuckers…. excuse my french, i cannot abide bullys…. especially ones who can hide behind a computer screen tossers

  • balletgirl345 says:

    Wow Leanne, your story is really inspirational! I’ve been bullied all my life, and I just cannot understand what a troll/bully thinks. I would love to be as beautiful as you are! :-)

  • *Aisling* says:

    I am completely in awe of anyone who makes videos on YouTube – the courage it takes is amazing and I wouldn’t have the nerve to do it personally. Well done to Leanne and all the rest of the Youtubers – you rock and you girls keep on going.

    I wish to god that site would step up and take some responsibility for the disgusting comments it encourages.

  • *Aisling* says:

    Holly, what a generous comment, I know you’ve had a hard time online too.

  • Aishlin De Brún says:

    I’ve been a subscriber of Leanne’s for maybe a year now. The quality of her videos is always amazing and super entertaining, she’s one of the few vloggers whose videos I will watch religiously. Also, I emailed her last year asking a few questions and she emailed me back within minutes with really helpful and friendly answers :) She has risen above the hate and always conducts herself so well. So if you haven’t paid a visit to her Youtube channel and her blog, go now because you’re missing out!

  • Having been bullied myself for something similar (I had a huge overbite and a lisp, which fortunately was corrected with orthodontics) I know how cruel people can be to your face. I can’t even imagine how much that bully’s bile would multiply with them protected sitting behind a screen and a keyboard. Even though my issues were corrected a long time ago, I still have a slight lisp and for that reason have put off doing YouTube videos. I want to, but I’m scared to put myself out there. I have to commend you Leanne for being so brave. I KNOW you will be successful despite the arseholes, and your success will be the best revenge.

    Here’s to a great 2013 for you x

  • Littlesis says:

    A very well written post on something that us non- you tubers just can’t understand. Your blog is brilliant, Leanne. Keep doing what you’re doing x

  • Hellojed says:

    Very well-written post. I cannot read Youtube comments anymore, they are by far the most obnoxious and cruel comments I’ve read on any site. Some times it feels like it’s only frequented by 12 year old morons. Kudos to you Leanne for putting yourself out there like that, and that you kept going despite the bullying. I don’t think I could have done the same when I was your age.

  • stephieshoenut says:

    Leanne , firstly you are doing an amazing job on something that you obviously love and that really comes through in your videos and remember when someone is doing well at something and they are happy and living their dream there are always “dementors” who want to suck the good out of everything you do as they are on a vicious cycle of both envy and bitterness due to never having the gumption to do something worthwhile and confidence building with their own lives . It’s easy to say ignore them but much much harder to actually do so but try to see that the hate that they spead is in the long run doing them more damage and that they must have very little in their lives to make them happy if the only thing that makes them feel good is to put someone else down whilst hiding behind their avatar self , what to do , two words basically ,FECK THEM !
    You have a bight future ahead of you Leanne and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise :D

  • Clodagh says:

    Hi Leanne! What a post,my two favourite beauty websites in one! I do feel sorry for these’trolls’ because they proberly do have low self esteem and being nasty makes them feel bigger. I love all your videos and you come across very confident in them. You always make me laugh in them and you’re so stunning. Something has to be done to these cowardly s***s, I know pesonally if I glance at the comments and seee a nasty one I give it a thumbs down straight away.
    Keep doing what you’re doing so brillantly, the trolls only wish they could be you!!!

  • Great piece Leanne. Fair play to you! Keep up the great work! x

  • Julie says:

    Funny how on blog sites where you can’t post anonymously nobody gets any hate, then on youtube where people can hide behind anonymous account names the hate and nastiness come out! I wouldn’t touch youtube with a barge pole.

    You’re beautiful, have a great figure and look like a model. Please don’t let jealous nasty losers get you down. Anyone who goes out of their way to make someone they DON’T KNOW feel bad about themselves must feel pretty bad about their own selves to begin with.

    I used to allow anonymous comments on my blog, till someone posted anonymously calling me anorexic. I do have an eating disorder and I’m self conscious about my weight and feel ugly being so skinny. Funny how the person leaving the hate couldn’t allow me to just their looks back. Probably because I’d see they were an insecure nobody.

    You know you’re the fucking bees knees when people you don’t even know hate on you. Fuck them babe, you’re beautiful and fabulous – embrace it. There’s alot of good people out there too, and alot of strangers who will support your success and not want to tear it apart.

    All my love to you :) Keep doing what you’re doing and don’t let ANYONE bring you down! Julie xxx

  • stephieshoenut says:

    Or even …..Bright Future ahead of you ! ;D

  • Jennifer says:

    What a super post. I have to say fair play to you for rising above it all, I experienced some online nastiness a couple of years ago when I was quite into the forums scene and it all but put me off altogether. I’m older now and could care less about the small minded opinions of virtual strangers, but i can see the effect that they would have on young, impressionable teenagers. those who make those horrid comments on YouTube seriously need to get a life – you were right Leanne, you really do have to pity them – they obviously lead such empty lives full of anger and hate that they have nothing better to do then try make others feel the same way. They are truly ones to pity.

    I think it’s wonderful you’ve chose to share your experience with us. :) Keep going and forget the haters, because trust me karma really does come all the way back around!

  • Niamh says:

    Never heard of Leanne until now… What a beautiful girl!! Checked out some of your videos, and i know that i will be wathing them religiously in future! Haters gonna hate, let them on, you’re better than that! Well done on having that amazing courage to get out there! :)

    P.S: Beaut.ie, seeing as it was so so lovely to find more Irish beauty bloggers and Youtubers through this site, a new Irish blog/channel a week would be really cool! :) xxx

  • *Aisling* says:

    Good suggestion Niamh – it was one of my New Years Resolutions believe it or not!

  • Shygirl says:

    I never heard of you either but from reading this I think you’re great. You are a beautiful looking girl. Those people are very miserable and unhappy in their own lives. I have been bullied but looking back now, they were miserable, petty small minded bitches. Just keep being yourself. Lifes too short! Big hugs. xxx

  • The thing is Leanne, happy people don’t do that shit. You kind of know instantly they come from a dark place because it just doesn’t occur to balanced, happy people to do what your trolls have done to you. I’ve done quite a bit of research into trolling; it seems they’re the same people pre-interwebs that would send poison pen letters or make heavy breathing phone calls – all anonymously of course. I consulted with a psychologist about what their motivation really is – it boils down to the simple fact that they want what you have, and with no way to get it, they turn admiration into the ugly cloak of envy and all that entails. When someone else’s confidence, ability or talent resonates in such a way that it actually takes something from the troll – or they feel it does – that’s when they can’t bear it any longer and have to turn to vitriol. I know it doesn’t help to have a rational explanation; it’s all so ugly and hurtful, but I just thought it might be some comfort to know that thing about the happy people. They never troll.

  • *Aisling* says:

    Jane that’s all so true. What’s the video about trolls that was doing the rounds a while ago – the song – it was so funny and true! If anyone can post the link I’ll put it up

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