Breaking up is hard to do: but who hurts most? Boys or girls?

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

I put up a post recently about frenemies and toxic friends but the comments didn’t go exactly the way I thought they would.

Instead of a discussion about friends who are more trouble than they’re worth and can be a bit of a drag sometimes, there was a genuine outpouring of tales of loss. Friendships that people had assumed were for life dissolving, and bonds that were once thought to be unshakeable melting away, once school or college were over.

Finding out that you and the gang no longer had much in common hurt. Hurt like hell.

Because you don’t expect other girls to hurt you. You’ve been there for each other through thick and thin, supporting one another through good times and bad, sharing fear and anxieties and always loyal.

Reading the comments I was struck by the fact that although girls expect guys to be the ones who’ll break their hearts and are alert and almost accepting of this: when it’s another female doing the dumping it’s much much worse.

So which do you think is harder. Breaking up with a man? Or a close girlfriend?

To the comments and don’t spare the horses.

Lady with a baby: pregnant Beaut.ies how did you/do you stay gorgeous?

Monday, July 19th, 2010

At the moment we seem to be the most fertile site in Ireland. Beaut.ie is breeding for the country and so we’re getting loads of questions about pregnancy beauty. We had a brilliant post a while back – Calling all Mammies that recommended a lot of body products and it sparked off a lot of interest.

So I admit I have a ulterior motive for asking you this question. I have to go and talk about the best products for pregnant gals – little problem though – I have no babushkas myself and therefore no first hand experience.

And you know we always like to recommend stuff that actually works – on real people. You’re my focus group!

  • Tell me what you used that worked – not just for the dreaded stretch marks – but everything else too.
  • Did you have to change your skincare – did you get spotty? What happened to your hair – did it become more lustrous – or maybe more greasy? What shampoo did you use?
  • Did you need to change your foundation if your skin changed.
  • What about concealer – did you get pigmentation marks and need to use a heavy duty concealer?
  • Post pregnancy did you find your skin had changed – and did you have problems with your hair?
  • And most importantly did you find yourself buying yourself little treats – because you’re worth it! And what where they?

Off you go! I’m dying to read the comments for this one!

Frenemies Forever: I useta love her useta love her once – long long time ago

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

yeah yeah

She’s your BFF.

But not in a good way. She’s your Best Frenemy Forever – you kind of hate her but you’re still ostensibly mates.

It’s the snide comments or the way she seems to copy everything you do. Maybe it’s the fact that she does nothing but moan or dominate every conversation by talking about herself – in the most boring fashion.  She drones on for what seems like years on the phone and is never ever interested in what you’ve been up to.

You come away from every encounter seething inside and vow to yourself that you won’t bother keeping up the friendship.

But you do. Maybe you’re remembering the good old days and the laughs you used to have – how she was the person you could talk to for hours on end and she just ‘got’ you?

Whatever the reason we’ve all got at least one frenemy. Who’s yours? Tell us about her!

Dr Hauschka says: treat like with like

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Dr Hauschka is an organic brand and their approach to skincare is quite different to mainstream ideas. It’s been ages since we had a Dr Hauschka post with some of his “rules” and it’s definitely time again.

We talked about why he thinks you shouldn’t use nightcream and why you shouldn’t exfoliate.

Whaaaat! Both of these things I could not live without and I’m sorry to say that although I tried these theories out I didn’t last long.

Other controversial Dr Hauschka theories include the Rhythm Method – which sounds disturbingly like the Catholic Church’s only brand of approved “contraception”. Which goes some way to explaining why Catholics had humongous families – until we all grew a set and ignored them. And used contraception that actually works.

Anyway another Dr Hauschka posited theory is this: treat like with like. In a nutshell what this means is if your skin is oily you should use oil to treat it. This theory actually makes a lot of sense and is something that we’d always advise anyway. He advises light clean plant oils that will help the skin to repair itself. Overharsh cleansers and toners are often used by people with oily skin, but they just strip the skin of oils and sebum – and actually encourage it to produce more.

So you’re locked in a vicious circle. Your skin is oily so you blast it with some oil stripping cleanser. This is probably too harsh and dries the feck out of your skin. Skin goes berserk and produces yet more oil to counter this effect. So you end up with an even worse problem and probably more zits into the bargain.

Now Dr Hauschka thinks your skin “knows” how to regulate itself. But er, if it knows this itself why does it become spotty and greasy in the first place?

But I do agree with this piece of advice. If you’ve got oily skin use gentle cleansers and don’t overload your skin with product. Avoid heavy moisturisers – and throw that bottle of Clearasil in the bin!

Irish Blog Award Winners 2010: How We Did It!

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

In the wake of our fantastic and unexpected success at this year’s Irish Blog Awards, where we scooped the top gong for Best Irish Blog as well as the Beauty/Fashion prize, I thought some of you might like to know a little about the mix of technology, expertise and hard work that goes into the content on Beaut.ie every day – after all, you don’t get to win best blog at the IBAs for no good reason.

There’s a lot more to building a successful blog than just setting it up, crossing your fingers and hoping for the best. If you want to retain and grow a readership and reputation, then it’s actually a huge investment. That can be in monetary terms, for sure, but mostly the investment will come in terms of your time and dedication – and, lets be frank, your talent. If you’re producing infrequent, scrappy, crappy content or bitching all the time, there’s a limit to how successful you’ll ever be.

What you can never underestimate is the strength of organic, natural, growth. That’s just how we’ve done things: because the blog began as a hobby (and to a large part it still is, albeit a professionally-finished one with schedules and deadlines) we never had a marketing schema or even really planned ahead. Instead, when you lot started (very quickly!) reading us, we listened to what you wanted and provided content based on that. We always kept our ears to the ground for the newest innovations and information so we could dish them up to you. We also always strove to be better than we were the week before, and we’ve achieved that – each year has seen the blog improve in leaps and bounds as we grow in expertise, knowledge and resources. That’s then delivered right back to you.

We’ve put our heads down and worked our arses off, doggedly stayed within our niche despite temptations to diversify, and most importantly of all, completely ignored our detractors, because at the end of the day, what we care about is your experience of the site. If you come here daily, you are the quintessential Beaut.ie reader. You tell us what you do and don’t like and we are absolutely primed to respond to that – for example, we added forums and Swap Siopa because you asked for them. At the end of the day, we do this blog essentially because of all of you – and there are a lot of you. Leading me nicely onto my next point …

Because the blog is so highly-trafficked (20k visitors per day with a million page impressions per month at the last count) Beaut.ie is hosted on its own dedicated server with Blacknight, who we’d highly recommend. It’s too big a blog at this point for cheaper shared hosting, so we bit the bullet and moved to a fancy new digital gaff a few months ago.

Lets take a look at the technology we use to make and maintain the blog. Hardware-wise, what I use to do most of the behind-the-scenes work is a MacBook Pro. I’ve had a Mac laptop for several years, and I upgraded to this before Christmas as I needed more power than my old MacBook could provide. Aphrodite has a trusty Dell laptop that’s her essential bit of kit.

My Blackberry is also an integral, and essential piece of Beaut.ie tech. I use this to not only read and respond to emails when I’m out and about, but to Tweet and to approve comments as they come in – we get hundreds upon hundreds a day, many of them from new readers which go into moderation, so it’s important to get to them as soon as possible. It’s a must-have for me, my third arm, and to be without it now would be a Terrible Thing Altogether.

Camera-wise, we use a Nikon D5000 with a Nikon ED 18-55mm lens. We will probably investigate getting a less ‘general’ lens shortly, and look for something that can really capture the detail in very close-up shots. For the meantime though, we’re happy with this and we think it’s brought a new dimension to the blog, as well as allowed us to properly shoot swatches.

Software (legally obtained and paid for) includes programs like Photoshop and Dreamweaver, two incredibly important tools in our arsenal. Photoshop is what we use to create the majority of our graphics, which are invariably all created in-house (or, er, on-couch), using a mix of press shots, stock images and self-shot images. We’re strong believers that design is fundamental and our logo and blog template were also self-designed and coded. Equally, we spend a lot of time on our images, because we feel that taking the trouble to properly illustrate the unique content we create is a central part of the site. So, if you ‘borrow’ them – please give us a credit and a link back, eh?

Dreamweaver is the software we use to create and edit the HTML and PHP code of the blog. Most important though, is WordPress. This is the platform, or content management system, we use for the blog, and it would not exist without it. It’s a fantastic, free piece of software with so many functionalities and capabilities and opportunities to extend, that even after nearly four years, we are still finding new ways to manipulate it.

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Rate it: best skincare for young skin

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

We’ve noticed that we’re being asked about products for young skin more and more – and while we do our best to cover everything, there’s an actual reason that we don’t write about younger skin as much. The focus in the cosmetics industry is heavily biased towards anti ageing and anti wrinkle hocus pocus and jiggery pokery. Sadly this does means that we end up writing about anti ageing more, because there’re tons of new products and scientific advances in this category.

Whatever the reason, that’s no good to you when you’ve got young skin and you don’t need to use these heavy duty creams and cleansers and want to hear more about what’s good for you, goddammit.

The good news is that cosmetic companies have copped on to this in a big way and are now producing good-quality products for teenage and early twenty something skin. Times were when the only thing you could get was a big nasty bottle of blue Clearasil that dried out your skin faster than a melon in the Sub Sahara.

Now thankfully there’re loads of products that are great for young skin – and we’ll give you a run down of some of the ones we’ve reviewed soon. But first we want to know what’s working for you and what you rate.

Go on, it’s good to share!

Crisps or chocolate? Or both? Together.

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

When it’s a rainy/cold/grey day outside and you’re reaching for the remote and snuggling up on the sofa in your slippers, one thing will make the day of happiness complete. You’re possibly hungover. Or possibly just in a piggy mood.

Not Jeremy Kyle, or Judge Judy or Dr Phil or other rubbish telly will complete you – no it’s junk that you need. But do you choose crisps or chocolate? Or do you choose both – and eat them together? Oh delicious.

I must admit that I’m partial to Dairy Milk and Taytos. Together. Sounds horrible? Not so: it’s scrumptious!

And I think I would commit murder for Tayto Bistros and Galaxy Cookies.

What’s your snackulette of choice: are you a saintly four squares of Green and Blacks person, or are you two big bags of tortilla chips and a box of Celebrations (andnowIfeelsickIamgoingtobed) type of piggie?

Tell all!

For the Love of God, Help me Name my Tweezers

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

Inspired by the tweezer thread over in the forums, and now in possession of a camera that’ll capture images that you can actually SEE, I hatched a plan.

Years ago, I bought the tweezers above in what was then Roches on Henry street. It is the best set I have ever owned (yes, even better than Tweezerman): perfectly sprung, it has razor-sharp, super-angled tips and despite being dropped on tiled floors far too many times to mention, has never blunted or decreased in its almost magical abilities to search out and destroy even the teeniest of hairs.

There’s just one problem.

I have no idea what the brand is. Zero. Zilch. I’ve Googled, I’ve hunted high and low across continents (literally) and have never seen one the same again. I don’t recognise the brand, and in fact have never been able to make it out – it could be upside down in the pic for all I know. Sometimes I think it reads ‘Men’, sometimes ‘Noul’, depending on which way I’m holding it.

So here’s where you lot come in: does anyone recognise it? Can any of you wonderous Beaut.ies enlighten me as to what my tweezers are? Leave a comment if you know, please – because boy oh boy, do I want a back-up.

Fifty Fine Things 2010! Get ready to VOTE!

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

Yeah, I’ll be voting for myself again this year. Everyone does it – and hey just look at me!

YES! It’s nearly that time of the year again – it’s nearly time to VOTE for your favourite Irish Fine Things!

Last year saw votes piling in thick and fast and furious discussions about whether Dermot O’Leary was eligible (he isn’t); should PKen feature on the list (he didn’t make it) and was there any way to stop the entire rugby team dominating the top spots (there wasn’t).

There is only one rule in Fine Things voting. And that’s GORGEOUSNESS. And er a second rule. Irishness.

You can vote for as many men as you like. And there will be prizes for entry. And judging by the reaction to last year’s list this is THE one that counts – every man wants to be on this list.

We’ll be opening the vote lines NEXT WEEK – stay tuned. But in the meantime – who do you want on the list? Let’s have a little pre-vote anticipation!

Morto: Irish Foundation Tidemark is International Makeup Artist Joke

Monday, December 7th, 2009

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At Lancome’s recent makeup party in Paris, I was introduced to several of their international makeup artists. These guys travel the highways and byways of the globe, representing the brand at events and in-store and they are all remarkably good at what they do, effortlessly making the attendant bloggers up with products from the new range.

As I was introduced to one of them, he craned his head around to the back of my neck – I thought he was looking at my earrings – and announced in surprise, “but you don’t have a foundation mark! You said you were Irish!?” Me, baffled and bamboozled: “eh, well, we don’t ALL wear orange foundation, you know,” to which he responded by roaring across the room to his colleagues, “she says it’s true! Irish women all wear dark foundation!”

Cue the whole room turning to stare as I was unable to sink any lower in the rock-hard chair upon which I was squirming like a hooked fish. So, it’s apparently not just us who’ve noticed our occasional lapse as a nation into shit-brown base that really doesn’t work on our skintones … because now groups of people in Paris find it hugely amusing too.

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