Comments on: Cheryl tries to beat heartbreak with vitamin injections – what are your break-up cures?

By: Carol Conway

Carol Conway — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 11:07:49 +0000

Oh god some people are so needy! Accept and move on is the way to do it! None of this weepy, ice cream malarky. Do you think fellas drown their sorrows in ice cream? No.

By: Cel (MadamesMadeUp)

Cel (MadamesMadeUp) — Mon, 15 Oct 2012 03:36:46 +0000

I think for me it was out of sight out of mind. Delete texts, numbers, FB account…..basically anything that would remind me of them!

I would go to certain places I’d been there with them (that remind me of them) with a friend, sooner rather than later, so I wouldn’t think “the last time I was there was with *****”. If you go there with a friend it might be a bit weird, but next time the place comes into your mind hopefully it won’t always remind you of that fecker!

A few nights out, bitch and moan about the fecker! Have a cry about it, eat chocolate, listen to some good music and think about rising above it.

I try to get into the mind frame of “if the person hurt you, it was meant to happen to make you stronger!”.

Sure sucks being hurt and all, but the energy spent being sad and moping around the place can be used into more positive things.

By: PirateAtSea

PirateAtSea — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 08:15:01 +0000

@Melanie Wow!! Well done!!

I remember on Corrie one of the characters saying the best way to get over a man is to get under another! Blunt way of putting it but it works. Getting back on the horse, meeting fellas, swapping numbers etc reminds you that there are plenty more (pretty damn good) fish in the sea Oh and the spoiling is very very important! Nothing quite like chocolate, wine and alcohol to heal a broken heart!

By: CBB

CBB — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 05:59:03 +0000

Marian Keyes books used to always work for me, honestly!

By: peachgirl

peachgirl — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 20:20:26 +0000

Lots of wine and chocolate …and a boatload of chickflicks.

By: Aisling

*Aisling* — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 20:14:55 +0000

A new haircut

By: Chris

Chris — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 17:28:25 +0000

I broke up with the loser/moron in June. I treated myself to tons of makeup (got lots of nice nail polishes!), sweets and comedy TV shows. I feel so much better now that the bipolar selfish jackass is out of my life.

By: Fay

Fay — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 15:51:45 +0000

Im 3 days on after a difficult breakup and a bottle of wine per night is numbing the pain.
A facial this evening, chocolate, more wine and tomorrow I officially am stopping this ‘woe is me’ moping bit and will join a class and get my hair done.

By: Melanie

Melanie — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 15:14:02 +0000

After kicking out my cheating ex-husband last year I gave myself a complete makeover. Elbow length hair, chopped into a pixie & dyed. Took up Pilates & running & lost 3 stone. Ditched my baggy tracksuits & started wearing blazers, skinny jeans, heels & make up.
I’m stuck with him in my life because we have 3 gorgeous kids together but now I’m a completely independent, shit hawt, Yummy Mummy!

By: Bunnybun

Bunnybun — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 12:55:15 +0000

I know its crass, but I do think the only way to get over boy is to find a new one…. even if its just a few drunken snogs!Until I do I remain hung up on the break up and the ex boy.